Lads, here’s how to send nudes that the ladies actually want
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As a woman in her 20s, I am well acquainted with dating apps, particularly that hub of hookup potential we call Tinder.
Over the years, most of my chats on this platform have followed a similar pattern: small talk, . Dick pic on the screen.
It's a bit full on. I mean, at least wine and dine a girl before showing her your crown jewels.
But this isn't how a lot of men think – for some reason, they think slamming a picture of their genitals onto the chat is guaranteed to result in sex.
Besides, you tend to get desensitised to penis pictures after a while, after being presented with a selection on a regular basis, and it starts to get boring.
Exchanging pictures can be fun, don't get me wrong – but as someone who's getting a bit sick of unlocking their phone and being greeted with a dick, it's about time a few pointers on how to send decent nudes got put out on the Internet.
Believe it or not, there are some techniques that will result in a girl being more likely to respond. Spamming dick pics over and over is not going to get the response of ‘Omg so hot take me now' (unless you're really thirsty, I guess, which is fair enough, but not representative of all women at all times).
In other words, you have to lure us in. Give us something to work with. Make us want that dick pic.
Make sure she's in the mood
The chat could be flowing really well – you've cracked a few jokes, she seemed to genuinely find them funny, and you're thinking about asking her out.
Don't give her a taste of what's to come by zooming in on your penis with your phone camera – that's just going to stop the conversation in its tracks. Continue reading "Lads, here’s how to send nudes that the ladies actually want"